How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 24.06.2025 01:48
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
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Losing 20kg is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Ask yourself:
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Procrastinates a lot.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What I need from you?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
That's it for today.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
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Do not set goals—set systems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Making more friends is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.